NCLEX · Grief, Loss, and End-of-Life

A client is receiving comfort-focused (palliative) care for end-stage cancer. She tells the nurse, 'I want to make sure my family is okay after I'm gone.' What is the MOST appropriate response?

Correct answer

'That sounds like something very important to you. Tell me more about what you're hoping for them.'

  1. A 'Don't think about that right now.'
  2. B 'That sounds like something very important to you. Tell me more about what you're hoping for them.'
  3. C 'Your family will be fine without you.'
  4. D 'That's not something we need to talk about right now.'

Why this is the answer

Clients at end of life often have psychosocial and existential needs that are as important as physical comfort. The concern for her family's wellbeing after her death is a MEANINGFUL END-OF-LIFE CONCERN and the nurse must honor it by creating space to talk. The most therapeutic response invites the client to continue, validates the importance of her concern, and shows genuine interest. END-OF-LIFE PSYCHOSOCIAL NEEDS: LEGACY CONCERNS — ensuring family is cared for, estate matters, letters to loved ones, video messages, completing meaningful projects; RELATIONSHIP REPAIR — resolving conflicts, saying I love you, saying goodbye; SPIRITUAL/EXISTENTIAL — finding peace, forgiveness, meaning in life, hope; FEAR OF THE DYING PROCESS — fear of pain, of being alone, of loss of dignity; FEAR FOR LOVED ONES — a common source of distress, especially for caregivers or parents of young children. NURSING ROLE IN END-OF-LIFE CARE: offer presence and listening (don't rush to fix or give advice); facilitate communication between the client and family; coordinate with social worker, chaplain/spiritual care, and palliative care team; address and document concerns; advocate for client's wishes; support the family as well as the client. WHAT NOT TO DO: dismiss concerns ('Don't think about that'); offer false reassurance ('They'll be fine') without understanding what the client means; redirect away from meaningful topics. ADVANCE CARE PLANNING: help ensure the client's wishes are documented (advance directive, DNR/DNI if desired, designated healthcare proxy/power of attorney for health); these documents should be completed BEFORE a crisis if possible. The NCLEX-PN tests for empathic, client-centered responses that honor the whole person — not just physical symptoms.
Source: NCLEX-PN Test Plan: Psychosocial — End-of-Life Care