NCLEX · Grief, Loss, and End-of-Life

A client with terminal illness asks the nurse, 'Am I going to die soon?' The nurse is unsure of the exact prognosis. Which response is MOST appropriate?

Correct answer

'That's a question I can't answer precisely — let's talk to your doctor together about your prognosis. What concerns do you have about what's coming?'

  1. A 'Yes, probably tomorrow.'
  2. B 'That's a question I can't answer precisely — let's talk to your doctor together about your prognosis. What concerns do you have about what's coming?'
  3. C 'You're not going to die any time soon.'
  4. D 'I'm not allowed to talk about that.'
  5. Change the subject immediately

Why this is the answer

This question requires honesty, acknowledgment of the limits of the PN's role, facilitation of appropriate communication, and therapeutic engagement with the client's real concern. BEST RESPONSE: 'That's a question I can't answer precisely — let's talk to your doctor together about your prognosis. What concerns do you have about what's coming?' This response: IS HONEST — doesn't claim to know what the nurse cannot know; ACKNOWLEDGES LIMITS — the specific prognosis question is best answered by the provider; ADVOCATES — offers to help connect the client to the right person; OPENS THE CONVERSATION — 'What concerns do you have about what's coming?' invites the client to share what they really need to know (fear of pain? unfinished business? concern for family? spiritual questions?). WHAT NOT TO DO: False precision ('You'll probably die tomorrow') — the nurse cannot know this and it could be devastating and wrong; False reassurance ('You're not going to die any time soon') — dishonest if the client has a terminal illness; Shut down the conversation ('I'm not allowed to talk about that') — abandons the client at a vulnerable moment; Change the subject — dismisses the client's existential need. SCOPE CONSIDERATIONS: PN scope does NOT include independently disclosing or interpreting prognosis; that is a provider and RN role. However, the PN DOES have a role in: listening to the client; acknowledging feelings; ensuring the client's question reaches the right person; providing presence and emotional support. IMPORTANT NURSING CONSIDERATION: when a client asks this question, they often want to TALK ABOUT THEIR FEARS more than they want a specific date — explore what's behind the question before rushing to answer.
Source: NCLEX-PN Test Plan: Psychosocial — End-of-Life, Prognosis Communication